Micky,
I also used wiki to clarify what I was writing, and I didn't try to hide it - it was obvious from the links in the definition I used that I was using wiki; it's not as though I was trying to cover it up and pass off wiki's content as my own.
What I'm suggesting is that we have to be careful about double standards. We all want our side of the argument to be the "winning" one, but that doesn't mean that we should unfairly apply some principle to the "opposing" side. If a rule is valid at all, it should be applied equally to both sides.